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The Marketing Secrets Show


Jul 24, 2019

Behind the scene’s access to a late night conversation with the two comma club coaching students.

On this special episode Russell rants to his Two Comma Club X members about how to build a list and why it’s so important. Here are some of the super awesome nuggets you’ll be hearing about in this episode;

  • Hear nearly a billion ways Russell has built his list over the years, and how you can use them as well.
  • Find out why email lists are still the most important lists to build.
  • And when creating a product, why listening to the market is key to giving them what they want.

So listen here to to all Russell’s creative and genius ways to build your list in the market of your choice.

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Hey everyone, this is Russell Brunson. I hope you guys are doing amazing tonight. I want to welcome you back to the Marketing Secrets podcast. I just finished an hour long Facebook Live with my Two Comma Club X members and it was all about list building and I kind of went off on a rant. And it was a lot of fun. And as much as they all needed to hear it, my guess is that some of you guys need to hear this stuff as well.

So with their permission, I’m going to be posting this here one the podcast so you guys can learn from it and hopefully start refocusing all your efforts on building your list. With that said, I’m gonna queue up the theme song, when we come back you guys will be jumping directly into my rant.

What’s up everybody? This is Russell. I know it’s a late night. I’m sure I’m not going to get more than one or two of you guys on Live right now. But I’m hoping in the morning that you guys are all going to listen in on this and you’re going to freak out and then you are going to be focusing on one thing and one thing only, for the next year of your life. So there we go.

So this whole conversation is starting out because, and I’m going to call him out a little bit because I love him, Nick Fitzgerald, he just did his launch this last week. And it did good, considering the percentage close rate and low in the fact that his list is really, really small. So he sold a ton of product to a really small list, which made not as much money as he wanted.

Anyway, I was going back and I was re-listening, because I’ve done two special podcast episodes for him. One- two years ago, one-last year, so this is going to be the updated version for him and for you guys and it’s going to be going deep on list building. So if you haven’t listened to any of those episodes, if you go back to the marketing secrets podcast, I found them today, the first one was episode 18, it was July 19, 2017 and the episode was called, How to Make it Rain.

So I highly, highly, highly recommend that you guys go back and watch that one. It’s me driving around Bear Lake telling Nick, this is before Nick knew anything about our world or Funnel Hackers or anything, and I was kind of just laying down the ground work of how people make money in this world, and it was really fun. So go listen to that one, number one.

And then a year later he came to Funnel Hacking Live, joined Two Comma Club X and then at the Traffic Secrets event I pulled him onstage and had him tell his story. And then I did a second round, a second round of podcasts with him live, in front of everybody, which is really, really fun. And oh great, Nick’s on here. What’s up Nick? You’re going to have so much fun.

Alright, so that one I posted, for some reason I stopped doing episode numbers, but….oh I remember why. ITunes didn’t like that for some reason. Anyway, November 21st there’s a podcast in Marketing Secrets podcast called My Conversation with the Friendly Giant part one of two. And then November 26th is part two of two. So go listen to those because Nick tells a story which is really, really cool.

And then the second half is I gave him spot consulting right there, I think it must have been five or six things or whatever. What’s interesting is one of the things I talked about is the same thing I’m talking about tonight. So I must not have said it loud enough, so tonight I’m going to say it really, really loud, because I think my wife and everyone is asleep in the house, so I’m going, we’re going ranting.

But it was talking about building a list. So that was a year ago. And now that he went through this experience of this launch and it didn’t do as well as he wanted. My heart broke for him and hurt for him, but then part of me is angry because a year ago I didn’t yell at him loud enough about this thing. So I’m yelling at everybody here inside this coaching program. I’ll probably turn this into a podcast episode as well, so I am yelling this for anyone who can hear the sound of my voice.

This is the warning, are you guys ready for this? Until you own traffic, you don’t have a business. Until you own traffic you do not have a business. What does that mean? It doesn’t mean, I think a lot of times us entrepreneurs we think that the business is the product. Like, “I created this amazing product, and business.” The product is not the business. Your customer list is the business. That’s the only thing that actually matters. If you look at companies that are purchased, the only thing that matters in a valuation of company is customer list.

Like if somebody was ever to buy Clickfunnels, they are not buying Clickfunnels. They couldn’t care less. They spend a couple million bucks on really good development, they could clone Clickfunnels. They would be buying Clickfunnels because of the customer list. That is the only tangible, valuable asset inside of my business, is my customers who are paying me for something awesome. It’s the customer list, it is the big, big secret. Does that make sense?

I remember a few years ago, in fact, I’m writing the Traffic Secrets book and I have like a two chapter rant about this as well in that book. But when EBay bought Skype for, I think it was like 4.2 billion dollars. EBay at the time was the biggest company in the world, why’d they spend that much money for Skype? They literally could have cloned Skype in a weekend. They did it because Skype had 420 million users at the time. That was the asset they bought, the customer list.

Why did Zuckerberg buy Instagram? He could have cloned Instagram in 35 seconds right. He did because he wanted the customer list, the subscribers. That is the only valuable, tangible asset in your business. So until you own traffic, until you have your own list, you do not have a business. You can have promotions, you can have some cash here and there, but until you have a list, you don’t have a business.

Okay, so knowing that, our entire focus should be building a list, that should be it, that should the focus, that should be the thing we talk about, we think about, we eat, sleep, breath, drink, that should be the number one focal point.

I know, somebody told me this a decade ago and I listened to it, and I tattooed it to my brain and I’m going to tell it to you guys all again. I want you all to get out a mental tattoo and tattoo this to your brain. Oh Nick started to repent right now. He’s saying, “I’m recording and creating freebee’s to build my list.” Good, we’re getting deep into that, but I’m going to go a couple of levels deeper than that tonight with you, if you’re okay with that.

So list building, my friend told me, he said, “On average you should make one dollar per month, per name on your email list.” That’s what he told me. I remember taking that to heart. I was like, “Okay.” I don’t know what it is, I have this really weird problem where if somebody tells me something I just believe it. So I’m like, ‘Sweet okay, a dollar per person per list. How much money do I want to make. I want to make $100 grand a year.” Because that was my big thinking back then, so I’m like, “I need a list of ten thousand people. A list of 10,000 people is $10 grand a month, $120,000 a year. Boom, I’m in.” So that was goal, and that was the game plan.

So I started running and started doing everything I could dream of, I was trying to be as creative as I could, how could I build a list? What can I do to build a list? Who has a list? How can I get that list? What do I need to do? And because that became the focal point, I started thinking about it right. And I remember in a very short period of time I got a list of 217 people, then it grew to a thousand and then to 5 thousand and then 10, and 15 to 20 then to 100 thousand and then to a million, and that became the focus.

And it was interesting, it was 2 years before Clickfunnels hit, my business was stagnating and stalling. We were stuck at 2 ½- 3 million dollars a year for 3 or 4 years in a row. I think you guys have heard me tell this story before. I remember we were trying to figure out, what’s the big thing I gotta figure out. And I remember Daegan Smith, he asked me one day, “How many people join your list every single day?” and I was like, ‘What do you mean?” I was like, “Well my list is like ( I can’t remember) 130,000 people.” He’s like, “No, no, no. I didn’t ask how big your list is. How many people per day are joining your list?” And I was like, “I don’t even know.” And he’s like, “Well if you don’t know, that’s why your business is stalling. If you don’t know how many people joined your list today, it means you’re not focusing, which means it’s not happening, which means that’s the root problem of all…like the root of all evil is the fact that you have no idea how many people per day are joining your list.”

Notice he said, “per day” wasn’t per week, per month, or per day. It was how many people per day. I remember I was in a mastermind group, this is back, this is going to date me a little bit for those SEO nerds out there. But there was a time when article writing was the secret to getting leads and all this stuff. And I remember this guy was in a mastermind group and he was talking about, he wasn’t getting traffic to his site and all these kind of things. And he was doing article marketing. And I asked him, “How many articles a day are you submitting?” and he’s like, “I can tell by the way you said that, that I’m doing it wrong.” I’m like, “What do you mean?” He’s like, ‘Well, I’ve submitted two articles so far, and you asked me how many per day I was submitting.” I was like, “Yeah, you’re doing it wrong.”

So that was like ten years ago when article marketing was this thing. But fast forwarding to now, it’s like, if you’re like, “Oh my list 10,000 or 100,000 people.” That’s not the question. The question is how many people per day are joining your list?

So Daegan told me that, and I was like, “I don’t even know.” So I remember logging into my software, and the software had the stats of how many people that day joined your list. So we started writing it on the whiteboard. I think at the time it was like 23 or something. It was like 23 that day and I was like, ugh. And the next day I looked at it and it was 20, and then 19, and these little numbers.

But then I started looking at it. As soon as I started looking at that number it started making me so angry because I was like, “It’s so small, I need to make it bigger. How do I make this thing bigger?” So what’s interesting is when you track something it grows. It’s just, except for when you’re losing weight. When you track something it shrinks. But for most things, if you track it, it grows.

So a number became the driving force. That was the metric for my business, how many people each day are joining my list? That’s all that mattered. We’re looking and focusing and that became the number. And so every single day we’d come in the office and that was the number. How many people joined the list yesterday? How many people joined the list yesterday? Every single day we came in, that was the number that was on the board.

And it was crazy, we went from 20-30 a day to 50 a day, to 100 a day, to 200 a day, to 250, to 500, to a thousand. And I remember when we crossed a thousand a day and it was insane. If you would have asked me a year earlier, “Can you get a thousand a day?” I’m like, “That’s not possible.” But we got to the point where we were doing a thousand a day, new people joining our list. And guess what happened to our business? It all just kept growing.

Because it’s the new fresh blood coming into your universe, your business is all about getting that fresh blood, the new people in all the time, consistently, focusing, focusing, focusing. And so I want you guys to understand, until you own the traffic you don’t have a business. So that’s got to be the key focus.

Without me teaching the whole Traffic Secrets book right now, there’s three types of traffic. There’s traffic that you control. So Zuckerberg owns it, or Larry and Sergei over at Google, they own the traffic. So that’s why they’re so freaking rich and so powerful. I was talking to my dad today about how if you look at the entire internet, you’ve got Zuckerberg who owns Facebook and Instagram, you’ve got the Google guys who own Google and YouTube, that’s 90% of the internet owned by 3 dudes. It’s insane, they have all the power because why? They have all the customer list. They have everybody. So they own traffic.

So if you go and buy ads, you don’t own that traffic. You can control it, so it’s good. And you should do that, controlling traffic is one way to build your list. I’m going to go buy ads to build my list, but I don’t own it. I can control it. I can buy an ad and say, “Point it to this landing page, and go there and give me your email address.”

Number two is traffic that you earn. So that’s me going on a podcast, or me doing a FAcebook live on somebody else’s page, or me doing a summit, or me doing all these things trying to earn traffic and get into their mind.

And then the third traffic, the third and best and most important, the only thing you should be focusing on is traffic that you own. That’s your list. That’s the big secret. When you have a list this game becomes super, super easy.

I always tell people that internet marketing is pushing a boulder up a hill at first. Because you’re pushing and you’re pushing, and it’s hard. And at first you’re making no money. And you’re like, ‘I’m spending 80 hours a day and no money is coming in. No money’s coming.” And you’re pushing and pushing it. But as you’re pushing this boulder up a mountain, that rock is your list and it’s getting bigger…I guess the rock is not the list technically, but it’s picking up the list and the list is getting bigger and bigger.

And there comes a point, this tipping point when the boulder gets on top of the hill and starts bouncing down the other side. And as soon as it starts bouncing down the other side, this game becomes really, really easy. For me that started happening about 30,000 people on my list. I was making, I was averaging about $30,000 a month. And it became easy. I could literally wake up in the middle of night and send an email to my list and be like, ‘Hey tomorrow I’m going to do a training on how to wake up happier. If you want to come to this training, pay me $10.” And I would wake up and there’d be $3,000 in my inbox. Insane, right?

Any crazy idea I wanted to pull out my “bloop”, pull out of my whatever, I could make money with it because I had a list and it was simple right. So that’s what you gotta get. Like getting from zero to a hundred to a thousand to ten thousand, twenty thousand, thirty, that’s the hard part. As soon as you get over the edge, then it becomes so, so, so easy.

So that needs to become the focus point and the goal. How do I build a list? How do I grow this thing? And it’s going to be painful to a certain point. And as soon as I get it over the top, then it becomes easy. Because you have a list, now you have leverage. Now it’s like, you can go to somebody else and say, “Hey, promote my product and I’ll promote yours.” There’s reciprocity, right. When you have no list and you go to somebody like, ‘Hey, promote my product?” They’re like, “No. What’s in it for me?”

I guarantee, as cool of a person as I think I am, if I were to call Tony Robbins a decade ago and be like, “Hey Tony, guess what? I’m a super fan. Can I come speak at your event in Fiji? Can I hang out? Do you want to be friends? You want to be business partners in the future? Do you want to promote my book?” He’d be like, “No.’

When I went to Tony, guess what I had? I had something that was of value to him. I had this thing it was called a list. And a list is a platform. I could say, “Hey Tony, man you’re amazing. I want to promote you to my list of 500,000 entrepreneurs, would you be interested?” and he’s like, “Yes, I will listen to you because you have a platform.”

Your list opens up doors, it opens up any doors. I don’t think there’s a human being on this planet I couldn’t get to right now because of my customer list. That’s how powerful of a tool it is. It’s the key. And when you have a list, you have power. You can do swaps, you can promote other things, you can sell your products, sell somebody else’s product, you can have an idea, you can brainstorm, it becomes easier because you don’t have to, again, right now we’re creating products where we’re guessing, we’re hoping, we’re putting stuff out there and we try to sell it and it doesn’t buy. And we’re like, “oh, we spent all this money on traffic and it didn’t work.”

Whereas if you have a list, you don’t even create the product. You’re like, ‘I’m going to send an email to my list and see if they buy.” They bought, “Sweet, I’m going to go out there and create the thing.”

The other powerful thing, I think it was John Lennon, was it John Lennon or Paul McCartney, this was them writing, and I remember the story. They were sitting one day and they wanted a swimming pool. And he said, “I’m going to go write myself a swimming pool.” and he walked inside and he wrote, I think it was Yesterday. Boom, got the royalties and bought the swimming pool. He wrote himself a swimming pool.

I remember Dan Kennedy, he, I love Dan. I’m a lot more, he calls his list his herd. Like, “Build a herd of people.” And I remember he used to always say, ‘If you want to buy something in your life, figure out what it is you want to buy,  a new car, a new house, whatever, then send the bill to the herd.’ That was what Kennedy used to always say to us all the time, back in his mastermind group. “Send the bill to the herd.” So it’s like, “I want to buy a new car, what’s it gonna cost? This one costs $150,000 for a new Tesla. Cool. Send the bill to the herd. Write an email, send it out, have them pay for it. Everything is free.”

That’s the power of a list. You have to make that the focal point because that is your business. Everything else is good. Having a webinar is good, but the reason why it’s good is because it builds a list profitably. Having a book funnel is good, but why is it good? Because it builds a list profitably. Having a summit funnel is good. Why is it good? Because it builds a list. All those things, the only reason why they ever even matter at all, is because they build a list. That’s it.

Every funnel I’ve ever created in the entire history of my life, is about one goal and one goal only, and it’s to build a list profitably. That’s it. If I have a list I can sell whatever I want. I can sell them software, coaching, supplements, underwater scuba lessons, I don’t even know. You can do whatever you want. That’s the magic. The list is the key.

Alright, have I drilled that into everybody’s heads enough? I hope I have. If not, I will rant even more. So now you’re all like, “Sweet, I got a list. Now I get the thing, I need a list. But how do we get a list?” So a couple things. Number one, you need to make on your whiteboard a big thing that says, “How many people have joined my list today.” And you look at that number. And if it’s zero, you need to be angry. If it’s one, you gotta be angry. Start being angry because the anger is what’s going to get your mind to be like, “What’s the next thing? What’s the ideal? What’s the thing I gotta create or do to get somebody to get on my list?”

Alright, so that’s number one, putting that number and making it front and center of your entire business. Looking at it over and over again so you see it, so you start thinking about it. That’s number one.

Number two now, it’s like, “Okay, if I’m going to build a list, I’ve got to…” List building is basically, you’re trading. Like, give me something in exchange for your email address. So it’s like, I need to create something really, really cool. It doesn’t mean it has to be big, doesn’t have to be a book, doesn’t have to be a thing, but something cool that’s unique, that’s fun, that’s interesting that you can, that’s got a really good hook. It could be as simple as, this thing I’m yelling my rant right now, this could be very simple and easy a lead magnet to put on a squeeze page. I could be like, “One night I went to my coaching members and I ranted for 45 minutes on the power of list building and I showed them 5 or 6 of my most powerful ways to build a list. If you want to watch that video right now, go opt in right now.” That could be it, this could be me ranting.

You could get on your phone and just rant for 15 minutes on the phone and that could be the lead magnet, that could be it. It doesn’t have to be something that’s huge and hard, it’s got to be something really, really cool. So you create that and then it’s like, you create that, you create a really basic landing page, squeeze page, and a thank you page where you give it away, and that’s phase one.

That’s why when we started this round of two comma club x coaching, the very first training I did was a two hour training on lead funnels, how to build a list through lead funnels. And I apparently didn’t rant loud enough in that for everybody to hear. So I’m ranting loud now. If you haven’t gone, go back to that training. I show, I think I show 110 different examples of landing pages and lead funnels and how they work and how people, different opt ins people use, and different bribes and the layout and structure of the pages. So it’s all in there, so go check that out.

So a squeeze page is good, but now it’s like, okay how do we get people to opt in. Because it’s like, traditional just Facebook ads, yeah, you can go buy Facebook ads, and you’re looking at anywhere from a buck to 5 bucks per lead. So especially when you start, that’s a heavy pill to swallow. So for me, Facebook ads are awesome and they’re great. I didn’t my very first Facebook, I didn’t buy my first paid ad for over a decade.

So for the first decade I was like, ‘I gotta figure out other ways to build a list.” And what’s fascinating, back then we did not have Facebook, we did not have Myspace, Friendster wasn’t selling ads. Google slapped everybody, so it worked for like a week, you know when I got in, it worked for like a week or two and then it stopped working for everybody. So I didn’t have an advertising platform to build a list on. It wasn’t a thing.

So I had to be creative. I gotta build a list, “How do you buy a list?” It wasn’t like go buy ads somewhere. It was like, you’ve got to be creative. How do you build a list? So pretend for a moment, I don’t have Facebook, I can’t pay for leads. How am I going to generate leads? I start looking, there’s other people that already have a list. So if they already have a list, how do I get access to…You have a list….

Do you guys remember the Wedding Singer when Adam Sandler goes to the bank with Kevin Nealon there, and he’s interviewing for a job and Kevin Nealon is like, “Why should I hire you?” and he’s like, “Well, you’ve got money. I need money. So I was hoping you could hire me and give me some of that money.” It’s the same thing. “You’ve got a list, I need a list, how do we do something together so that your list can join my list and I have a list too?” As dumb as that sounds, that literally is what went through my head all the time because I didn’t have a list and other people did, so I’m like, “How do I build the list?”

A lot of it was going out and like, “Okay, how do I create something with this person? How do we do a partnership?” I did summits like crazy. I’ve been in more summits than you guys would ever believe. If you ever go back in the internet archives you can see a lot of them. But I did a lot of summits. I put on my own summits. Why did I put on my own summits? Because I knew that all the other people I was going to interview in the summit had a list and I didn’t. I didn’t even position myself as an expert initially. I just “okay, I’m going to do a summit. It’s called the Affiliate… in fact, it was Affiliate Boot Camp.” I think I’ve launched affiliate boot camp six times.

But my very first one was Affiliate Boot Camp, and I just found six affiliates, excuse me, I think it was 12, I can’t remember it’s been a long time, a decade or so. A whole bunch of affiliates, I put them on a summit, and I was just the interviewer. I wasn’t teaching anything, I just interviewed people. And then I had everybody promote this summit, I interviewed all the people and I got a list. And it wasn’t a ton, I think I got 1500-2000 people to join my list. Now I had a list.

And I leveraged that list. I went to someone else and said, “Hey, your product is really cool. I’ve got a list, it’s not huge but I’ll promote your product if you promote mine.” Someone’s like, “cool, I promote your product.” And all the sudden we did exchanges. They promoted mine, I promoted theirs. And what would happen is I’d make a little money, they’d make a little money, but I’d get people joining my list.

Then I started thinking, okay, I know all these people that have lists, and a lot of them are affiliates, they promote other people’s products. So what if I created something really, really good and most people are paying them 50% commission on the product, what if I came back and paid them 100% commission? And at the time no one had ever heard of that before.

So I go to people, “Hey I created this amazing product. Check it out.” And they’re like, “That product is really cool.” And I was like, “What if I pay you 100% commission to promote it?” and they’re like, “Why would you do that?” “I don’t know. Because I’m a nice guy and I feel like you should get all the money because you’re the one who built the list, and you spent the hard time, energy and effort, and you’re way cooler than me. So I’ll let you sell my product and keep 100% of the money.” And so many people said, “Dude, that’s an awesome deal.” So they would promote my product and they would keep 100% of the money, and guess what I would get? The list, their list would join my list. And all the sudden those people became my people. And the next thing I sold, I kept all the money from. That was the magic.

I remember I had one friend, he did a really cool thing. He had these CDs that he used to sell for, I can’t remember, I think it was $300 for these CDs. And he was doing okay with it, but not killing it with these things. And he’s like, “You know what I’m going to do? I’m going to take my $300 things…” and back then he put them on CDs or DVDs, so it doesn’t work as good nowadays because people don’t really have DVD players, but back then it was a thing. And I remember he did this big Christmas promotion and he went to all these big, huge people’s lists and said, “Hey for Christmas, how would you like to give your list my $300 product for free?” and people were like, ‘That would be awesome.” He’s like, “It’s free, so you’re not going to make any money. But they get a cool gift and it’s coming from you and it’ll be awesome.”

So he sent these pages for each person, and I didn’t do it, but it would have been like, it was called The Marketing Quickie, so it was like marketingquickies.com/Russell. So you go to Marketing Quickies and you see that the CDs are like $300, if you go to /Russell it was like, “Hey this is, (what was his name? Was it Andrew?) I did this partnership with Russell because you’re on the list, normally when you go to the homepage, you can go see it, it’s $300 for this product, but because you’re Russell’s subscriber, I’m going to ship you out a CD for free, all you gotta do is put your name and address down below and I’ll ship you a CD for free.”

So he came to me and I don’t know, like 400 other people, he asked tons of people and most of them said no. But he had 30 or so people say, “Sure that sounds awesome. It would be a great gift for my audience.” They all sent emails to their list, they went to the page, filled out the form with the shipping address everything. He went and burned CDs all Christmas long and sent them out to people. And when all was said and done, he ended up with a list of 18000 people, boom, by giving away his product for free.

“But Russell, now I’m not going to make any money.” Again, your business isn’t your product. Your business is your customer list. Now you got a customer list, now make another product, figure out the next thing they want to buy.

I remember Tellman Knudsen, Tellman I remember I had just been building my list at the time. I thought I was a hot shot. I think I had, how much was it, I probably had 40-50,000 people on my list at that time. And he messaged me one day, I didn’t know who he was, some of you guys may not know Tellman, he’s not as big in our market as he used to be back in the day, but he’s more in the personal development, hypnosis market now. But he used to be in internet marketing, in fact, he owned listbuilding.com for a long time.

But anyway, I digress. He came to me and said, “Hey Russell, I’m doing this really cool summit where everyone’s talking about how they built a list. And I want to see if you’ll promote this summit to my squeeze page, and then you can be on the summit?” And I was like, “No dude, that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard.” And he’s like, “Why?” and I’m like, “I’m not going to email my list to your squeeze page, then half my list will go on your list, and what’s the benefit for me?” anyway, I told him no and hung up the phone.

And then like 6 weeks later I see this big launch where every single person on planet earth is emailing their list to this brand new newbie’s squeeze page, Tellman. It was like, in fact, if you go to, I wonder if it’s still there. It used to be listcrusade.com I wonder if it’s still there. Crusade is a hard word to spell. I spelled it wrong. Anyway, I’m sure if you go back to the Wayback machine you can find. But it was just a page that was like, “Hey learn list building secrets from (and it had all the people’s names). Give me your email address and I’ll give you access to all these interviews.”

And he did it, and like I said, 6 weeks later I saw all these people emailing. Boom, boom, boom. Person after person after person, all these big names. I was like, “What in the world.” And I remember, I watched his campaign and he built a list, I found out later, of over 100,000 people from this campaign. I remember messaging afterwards. I was like, “Dude, how did you pull that off? Because you asked me, I thought you were insane and I told you no.” and he’s like, “I know. Most people thought I was insane. I asked 70 people and all 70 of them told me no. Then I asked the 71st person,” and his name, I think it was the nitro guys, Matt and Kevin Wilkey, he them and they said yes. And he’s like, “Oh my gosh, I got my first yes.”

So then he went to the 72nd person and said, “Hey I’m doing this project, these two guys just said yes. Do you want in on it?” and then that guy’s like, “Yes.” And he went to the next person. “Hey I’m doing this project, that person and that person said yes. Do you want in?” “Yes.” The next 40 people said yes afterwards. But he got 70 no’s in a row before he got his yeses. Is that crazy? And then boom, at the end of the campaign 100,000 subscribers. I think year one in his business he made $760,000 and all he did was email to those lists, all the other people’s products and sold their products. He didn’t even have his own product that first year. He just built a list from everybody else’s list and then sold other people’s products.

Do you guys see this? It comes down to this creativity. How do we do this? How do we do it? It’s like how do I create cool things that I can somehow incentivize somebody else to promote?

One of the things Nick said, and I’m going to tease him a little bit about this, but he said, “I thought that I had a bunch of friends who I assumed were going to help me promote the product.” Why would they help you promote the product, there’s no reason why someone would help you promote the product. I have to make a better offer to my affiliates than I do to my customers.

People always think, “Well Russell, everyone promotes Clickfunnels.” Why do you think everyone promotes Clickfunnels? Number one, we pay 40% recurring commission for the lifetime of the customer. Higher than any other SAAS platform on this planet. Number two, I paid for a dream car for everybody. Number three, I bring them onstage and give them street cred. Number four, a lot of times we have 100% affiliate commissions on books, on offers, OFA. Number seven, book deals when we do the book launches we always do $20 to give away a free book. I work harder to get my affiliates to promote than I get my customers to buy.

So you have to understand if you want somebody to promote for you, it’s not just like, “Oh promote me. You should promote me because we’re friends or because we know each other.”  No, don’t ever expect that. My best friends on the planet, I do not ever expect them to promote my stuff. I still go out of my way to sell the crap out of every one of those guys as well. I gotta make an offer for every single one. I don’t care if I’ve been friends with them for a decade and a half, for them to promote me, I still sell them on why they gotta promote me. And we make those offers insane.

So when you thinking you want affiliates to promote you it’s like, “What do I give them? Do I give them 50%? Do I give them 100%?” I can’t tell you how many messages I get from people like, “Russell, I have an idea for a product, if you promote it, I’ll give you 50%.” I’m like, “Dude, really good affiliates don’t take 50%.” Especially for info products, they don’t want 70 or 80 or 100. We’ve got deals we’ve done in the past where we’d pay 150-200% commission on things. Why? Because we want the list.

One of my very first mentors, his name was Mike Lipman. I remember seeing him onstage one time and he said, he was talking about doing these offers, they make these free DVDs. “We sell these free DVDs, somebody buys the DVD and we call them on the phone and we sell them coaching.” He said, “Guess how much money I spend to sell this free DVD?” And I was like, “I don’t know.” And he said, “$30. I pay an affiliate $30 to give away a free DVD.” I was like, “What? You’re going to be broke in like 13 DVDs. How does that work?”

And he stopped and said, “Russell, you have to understand, amateurs focus on the front end. Amateurs focus on the front end. Professionals focus on the back end.” He’s like, ‘I spend $30 to give away a CD, but I average, if every CD I give away I average $200 in sales on the phone within 6 weeks.”

So for you guys, start thinking about that.  How do I create something at such a good deal for the affiliates to promote, I give them so much up front….Why do you think we pay 100% on our OFA, One Funnel Away challenge? We pay 100% because right now we got, last month 6500 people joined OFA. 6500 buyers, guess how many leads came from that? A whole lot more than that. I think, yeah, a lot. And it cost me a ton. In fact, I lost money. I think we spent $70 per box, maybe $60. I might be misquoting, 60-70 dollars per box for the One Funnel Away Challenge. Plus 100% commission, so it cost me for every box I sell, I lose $50-60.

But what happens? Amateurs focus on the front end. I focus on the backend. I get a customer, I bring them into the value ladder, I bring them to the things and they ascend and they get stuff, and all sorts of stuff like that. That’s what I want you guys to understand. It’s coming back down to how do we create something amazing? And if you’re nervous, again, it comes back to especially at the beginning when money is tighter, paying Facebook a dollar to 5 dollars per lead is scary. But it’s like, what if we come back and what if I took my $300 product and put it on CD and people pay $4…maybe not CD, maybe MP3 player, whatever, and pay $4 for me to ship it out to them.

Or maybe it’s a book. Maybe I take my best presentation, my best Facebook live, my best whatever and I get it transcribed where it’s like a book, and I get affiliates to promote it and they give it away for free, and I’ll print it and ship it and send it out to people and they pay $5 for me to print it and ship it to them. And I get the lead and they get whatever.

Or maybe it’s co-branding. I used to do this all the time, where I would find somebody who had a list, who was better than me. I’ll tell you if I can think of somebody off the top of my head. Mike Filsaime and I used to do this. We did it a couple of times, where we had both done a pre-launch, in fact, if you go back to the internet archives and you go to prelaunchsecrets.com, go to the wayback machine, you’ll see it. But basically he had done a bunch of pre-launched, I had done a bunch of pre-launches, we came together and created prelaunchsecrets.com and it was basically a telesummit where it was like, ‘hey come listen to the summit and you’ll hear Mike talk about his pre-launch, I’ll talk about my pre-launch. We’ll talk about what we both did and then you get it for free.”

So Mike promoted it to his list, I promoted to my list, when leads came in, we both got the leads, so they joined both our lists when they came. So basically, he got some of my leads, I got some of his leads, we both got better. We gave away this really good training for free. And I think we had an upsell where you could buy, I can’t remember, something we put together for an upsell, to try and make a little money off it. But that was it.

And then I did another one with Josh Anderson, and with Jeremy Burns, I’m trying to remember some of my old buddies from back in the day. It’s the same kind of thing. I would interview them, interview and we’d put together a thing, where it’s co-branded, we both create something together, we both promote it, we both split the leads, and boom, both of our lists got bigger.

So it’s like looking at people who already have lists, looking at people who have a following. Co-branding and going into each of these different markets and doing that. The first part of your business, you guys have to understand, the first part of your business is all about getting land. It’s getting people. In fact, at a recent inner circle meeting, it was interesting, Brandon Poulin was there and he was talking about how the first half of your business is all about gaining ground. And th second half of your business is about protecting it.

And hopefully none of you guys have to go through that part of the process, but we get to the spot when now it’s like, you know we have legal crap, and other stuff to protect your land. People throwing lawsuits at you all the sudden. That’s the part of the design that sucks. You guys are in the fun part of the business where you’re like gathering land. This is the great, if I could sit down in this range of how to get more land, it’d be the greatest thing in the world.

But it’s thinking about that. This is the part of my business where I gotta gather land, I gotta get people as quick as I can. So it’s doing a little bit of a lot of things consistently, every day. Your full time job, this is your job, this is an 8 hour a day job, to hustle to build an audience. Until you have an audience, you don’t have a business. Until you have a list, you don’t have a business. So it’s going out there and buying ads, doing affiliate deals, you’re doing partnerships, you’re getting people to email, you’re doing summits, you’re doing podcasts, everything you can do to capture land. It’s just not one thing, it’s a whole bunch of things.

Just trying thing after thing after thing, and if it doesn’t work, don’t freak out. Do the next thing and the next thing. It’s going to a potential dream partner who has got a list. “Okay, you’ve got a list. What can we create together?’ or coming to them with a plan. “Hey, I’ve got a really cool idea. I can, your audience is good at this, I’m good at this.”

Like Noah St. John did this back in the day. At the time he had no, he was a personal development guy and his whole pitch is like, a lot of times he’s like, “Russell, you teach people the most amazing marketing stuff in the world. They’re sitting there, they got their foot on the gas because you gave them all the information, but they’re all freaked out, so the same time their foot is on the gas, the other foot is on the brake. So they’re spinning out and nothing is happening. Your product helps people put their foot on the gas, my product helps them take their foot off the brake. Let’s do a partnership where your people can come in and buy your product, and then they get my training. My training will help them take their foot off the gas.”

And if I remember right, this was a decade ago that he first pitched me on this. He didn’t want money for it. He was like, “Just put this on your thank you pages and have people click the link, they go over and fill out a form and then boom, I’ll give them access to my course.” And when they filled out the form, guess what they did? They joined their list.

One of my buddies, Joel Marion and Josh Mazoni, they launched biotrust which is a supplement company. If you look at how they did it, they didn’t go and buy a bunch of ads initially. What they did is they went to all the people who already had traffic right, they already had funnels. They went to the thank you page of every single person’s thing, and on the thank you page they’d have a button that said, “Thanks for buying my info product about how to get 6 pack abs. Click here to find out my number one recommended supplement.” They’d click there and go over to a squeeze page and put the name and email address in and then boom, they were put on Josh and Joel’s list, and then those guys emailed the list every single day selling protein and things like that.

And as they were selling all those things, all those commissions were going, excuse me, all the commissions would go to the person who referred them over to the squeeze page and they just sold, they’d sell people like crazy and all the commissions went back to that person. Just like in Clickfunnels. When someone sells one of my books and we get them to buy Clickfunnels, that affiliate still gets them money.  So he just put a squeeze page on every one’s thank you page.

So it’s looking at that kind of thing. How can I go to other people that I know in my market who maybe have a little bit bigger following than me, and how do we start partnering together and we tag team together and we create cool things together?

I’m trying to give you guys as many different tactical ideas to jolt your brain as possible. What else, what else? One thing is I’m thinking more just tactical ideas, I remember when I first got started in this game, Ifirst got the gist of list building, and I remember I started looking who the list builders were. And if you don’t know how the list builders are in your market, that’s your number one homework assignment, that’s even before writing the number on your board of how many people joined today. Who are the list owners in your market?

And I’m talking about email lists. There’s so many different types of lists, but emails still to this day, are still the most powerful. Getting on someone’s podcast is good, and it’s awesome, but getting them to send an email for you is better and it’s faster. It just still is. Someday it may not be, but as of today, it’s still the best. So I’m talking about email list builder. So who are the email list owners in your market?

So I remember that was the first thing I learned about building a list. I’m like, “Cool, who are the list owners?” and I started listing them out. I remember the ones at the time were like Joe Vitale, Mike Gillespie, who are the other names? All the different names. So I was like, “Okay, I’m going to do a deal.” And I remember Joe Vitale was the first one, I thought he was so cool. And he is cool actually, but I remember at the time I was like, ‘Joe Vitale is the man. I wanna be the like, I want him to promote my thing.”

And I built this whole thing up and I remember I built a whole, I remember studying his stuff and going through and learning stuff, and I was like, “okay, I have something I can provide his audience, it’s going to be a huge deal.” And then I emailed him and guess what I heard back? Nothing. Crickets. Crap. So I emailed him again, nothing. I emailed him again, nothing. I’m like, ‘What a punk. He should be responding back to me. Doesn’t he know that I spent all this time and energy learning about him and focusing on him?” I say that because I’m being vulnerable but, I guarantee that happens to me all the time. I get people hitting me on Instagram, on Facebook, all sorts of places and I don’t respond back to them because I can’t. I’m drowning.

Looking back now I’m like, “Joe, I get it. So sorry. It totally makes sense why you didn’t.” But he didn’t right. And I was trying all these people that were at this level up here, I’m reaching out to them, and none of them respond back to me, and I was all angry and mad. And then I remember I was just like, “Man, this game sucks. No one’s out here for the little guy. I thought this was, everyone was here to help each other, and apparently not.” All the bitterness that I could possibly have was all there.

And then I went to this forum at the time and I met a dozen guys, who were all about my level. We’re all doing that same kind of thing, and no one had a huge list. I think my list was 200 people at the time, Mike Filsaime was one of the guys in there. Mike I think had a list of like 5 or 6000 people. He had just come out with a product called Carbon Copy Marketing and he had them on CDs and he would burn the CDs.

I remember that I think he was charging $5 or $10 for them, and it was like a $97 product and it was cheap, and he was using it to list build.  Looking back now it’s like, oh he was doing it to list build. He started building up this huge list. So that’s what he was doing. And I emailed Mike and sent him a copy of my product, he’s like, ‘This is really cool. I’m going to promote it.” He promoted it and then I was like, “Cool man, thanks for promoting it. Who else do you know?” and he’s like, “Oh, you should meet this guy, this guy, this guy.” And he told me two or three other people, who same thing, had a list about the size of mine, maybe a little bit more, kind of the same area.

And we got to know each other, and had another one promote me, then another guy promote me, then I promoted this guy. And we started, it was interesting, all these guys were at this level down here. And I remember looking at all these guys up here, like the Joe Vitale, Steven Peirce, all these guys that were untouchable, and we were down here. And we start promoting and cross promoting and helping each other out. And what happened was interesting. At that level we started getting bigger and started getting better and our list started getting bigger, and they started responding more and they started getting more people.

And then every single person we brought in knew three or four other people and we’d get them in and we’d get them in. And pretty soon I’d have this network of 30 or 40 people and we’re all helping each other and cross promoting each other and doing deals together and co-branding products together and we’d both promote the product. Do all this stuff, and soon, in about a year, year and a half time our list got to the same size, or bigger, than these people I was looking up to.

I remember by that time I was doing a project and I was like, “Oh, it’d be cool to do this thing with Joe Vitale.” But I was like, “I can’t message him. He hasn’t responded to like 6 of my messages.” I’m sure I said something stupid in there. I don’t even know. I probably said something, I don’t know, probably something embarrassing. But I was like, “I’m just going to email him.”

And I emailed him and Joe’s like, “Oh man, I see you everywhere right now. I’d love to do something with you.” Emails me back instantly. I was like, “Oh my gosh. I’m in. I’m in the cool kids club.” Then we started doing deals with people at this level. And guess what, all of us grew to the next level and kept growing and growing and growing and that’s how we started growing.

So I think it’s a big thing for all of you guys. Look in your market. Start looking around, who are the list owners and then get to know them. Build partnerships, build friendships, take them to dinner, buy them a party. And then actively try to figure out things. A lot of times I see people doing the dream 100 and they send gifts and try to do nice stuff, but they never ask for something. Ask for stuff! You’re both trying to help each other. Get on the call and be like, “How can we help each other? I’m really good at this, this, and this and you’re good at this. What can we do? Can we do a summit together? Can we do a cross promo? Should we create a product together? You promote it to your audience, I promote to my audience, we cross pollinate. What can we do?”

And then after that stuff be like, ‘Who else do you know that I can work with?” they introduce you to people and you introduce them to those three people that you knew and worked with in the past. You start building this network of people that becomes super, super powerful. In fact, I’ve actually just written this in my Traffic Secrets book. This is a lot of spoilers for you guys, for when the book comes out in the near future.

Do you guys remember the movie, Never Been Kissed with Drew Barrymore in it? It’s one of those cheesy movies, that I don’t know why I watched it but I did. I’m sure my wife made me. But in the movie Drew Barrymore goes to high school, she’s a complete loser, and then she leaves high school and then she gets a job as a reporter. And then her boss wants her to do a story on all the cool kids in high school who are all into drugs and all the stuff.

So she’s like, ‘I’m going to go back to high school.’ And she goes back to high school and instantly within 5 seconds she’s back in with the nerds. She’s in the chess club, the music, and all these things like that. And all the stories she’s bringing back to her boss, he’s like, ‘I want a story about the cool kids. I don’t care about chess club and things like that.”

So she tried to get into the cool kids club, and just gets rejected every single time. So she goes back home to her brother who is David Arquette and tells him this whole thing. And he was like the cool kid in high school. He was like, “You’re so lucky to be back in high school. I want to be back in high school.” And she’s like, “No, it’s horrible. The kids are so mean.” And he’s like, ‘If I were back in high school, I’d be cool again.”

And she makes fun of him like, ‘No, you couldn’t be it.’ So the next day at school, she goes back to school again and all the sudden she sees her brother come in and she’s like, ‘what are you doing?” and he’s like, “I just registered for high school.” And she’s like, “Whatever.” Anyway, he walks into the lunch room the very first day and he grabs a big old tub of coleslaw from the lunch lady, stands up on the table, and starts trying to eat the entire thing of coleslaw. So he eats this whole thing of coleslaw, and all the jocks, all the cool kids around him chanting and cheering and by the time he’s done he’s just covered in coleslaw. And they pick him up and carry him out of the lunchroom.

I maybe exaggerated the story. I can’t remember perfectly, it’s been about a decade since I’ve seen it, but you know what I mean. All the sudden he becomes the cool kid. And Josie, who’s Drew Barrymore’s character, goes back to him later and is so mad at him and frustrated. And he said, ‘No, no, I want to show you something.” So he walks over and teaches this principle that’s so, so powerful. Again, I’m slaughtering the story, but conceptually hopefully this makes sense.

So he goes over and he starts telling people, “Hey you see that girl Josie over there? We used to date but she broke up with me. She is so cool, she is so blah, blah, blah, whatever.” And the guy’s like, “Really? She’s that cool?” “Oh yeah, she’s amazing.” And then all the sudden he goes and tells someone else and tells three or four people and all the sudden, within a day or two, all these people come over to Drew Barrymore’s character and bring her into their thing, and all the sudden, that quick, she’s one of the cool kids.

And David Arquette’s character says something that’s so powerful. He said, “If you want to get into the cool kids club, all you need to do is get one cool kid to think you’re cool.” Boom. Are you guys getting this?

So for you, as you’re building your dream 100 looking at this thing and trying to figure out, how do I get in this network of people? You don’t have to get everyone to say yes, you have to find one cool kid to think you’re good and you’re in. That was the moral of Tellman’s story that I told you guys 20 minutes ago. Tellman called 70 people in a row. 70 people told him no, and then one cool kid said yes, and the next 40 said yes. All you need is to get one kid to think you’re cool and you’re in.

So who is that in your market? And if you don’t have a list of 10, 20, 30 people that are in your market, these people right here have my customers, they’re on their list right now. If I can figure out a way to work with them, their list will become my list. This is what we’re talking about. I’ve been preaching dream 100 for a decade and for a decade and for some reason the majority of people never do it. And dream 100 does not mean sending out big packages in the mail, it means Facebook messaging someone saying, “Hey, what’s up. What do you do? How can I help you? I’ve got a product, you’ve got a product, let’s do a deal together. What can we figure out?” that’s what dream 100 is at its core essence.

It’s getting in there and networking and trying to find out who’s the cool kid. Because you get in with one cool person and that person thinks you’re cool, it opens up all the other doors. Does that make sense?

For me, my cool kid was Mike Filsaime. As soon as Mike Filsaime said I was cool. He did my first promo on ZipBrander, one of my very first products ever, he went out and he’s like, “Hey Gary Ambrose, hey so and so, he so and so, this guy’s named Russell, he’s really cool. You should do deals with him.” And I did deals with all three of those guys. And I asked them, “who else do you guys know. You guys are awesome. Do you know any other cool guys like you?” They’re like, “Yeah, you should meet him and him and her and her and that person.” And brought me in, and then within months my network grew very, very big. And then all of us started cross pollinating, cross promoting and all of us as a market grew to the next level, and grew to the next level, and grew to the next level.

Alright, does that make sense you guys? There’s a million tactical ways to build a list, but it just comes down to thinking about it differently. Think about it like that is your business, that is the core thing. How do I do it? Who already has my customers on the list? How do I get to know them? How do I become friends with them? What can I create with them to get them to promote my thing and I can promote their thing? How do we do these kind of things?

And maybe, let’s say, coming back to Nick specifically on this one. Nicks new course in on Facebook live. And it’s like, okay who are people in your market that have a big, like have a fan page with 30, 40, 50, 100,000 followers right now. And come to that people and say, “Let’s be live together to your fan page, and let’s talk about the power of Facebook live’s and at the end we’ll make a special offer. I’ll pay you 75% commission on every single one.” Boom, that fast you’re in front of their entire audience.

There’s a reason why I launched my book I said, “Tony Robbins, can you interview me?’ He’s like, “Sure, I’d love to interview you.” I’m like, “But not on my page. My page has my fans. I want to be interviewed on your page.” He’s like, “What?” I’m like, “Yeah. Let’s do the interview on your page.” And he’s like, “I guess.” So we do the interview on his page and guess what? His 3.2 million fans saw the interview because it was on his page, and I got all his people to come and buy my book.

And then I asked Tony, “can my team login to your ad account and buy ads? I’ll pay for the ads, you’ll get affiliate commissions on it.” I’m selling my partners harder than I’m selling my customers. “I will login to your ads, I will pay for the ad cost and I’ll pay you affiliate commission and we’ll keep pushing the interview.” He’s like, “Sure.” So we logged into his ad account for like 3 months after that. I was spending as much money as possible to show every one of Tony’s fans my interview with Tony on his page. And we ended up getting, I think that video had 3 or 4 million views on it during that time.

So it’s that thing. Aaron said, “The first step is admitting that we’re not the cool kids yet.” Exactly, exactly. Toby said, “I’m building a list of agency owners and marketing freelance, I have about a thousand so far. DM me if any of you guys want in.” You know as much I think Gary Vaynerchuk’s a…I’ll leave it there because this may be public some day. As much as I love Gary Vaynerchuk, the best thing he said, “You guys know what business development is, business development is getting your phone out, going to instagram and going to your DM’s and DMing each person. Not copying and pasting. Literally DMing each person a personal message. Like, ‘Hey, you’re awesome. Hey, you’re awesome.”

By the way, I’m going to geek out for a second because I got really excited about this. My favorite author right now is a guy named Ryan Holladay, he’s written some of the most amazing books ever. So many good ones. Trust Me, I’m Lying is insane. It will change the way you look at the news, Perennial Seller about how to create works of art that last for forever. Super powerful. Then he wrote, Ego is the Enemy, The Obstacle is the Way, a whole bunch of other ones.

So I follow him on Instagram and he’s got a new book coming out and posted a manuscript. I commented, “Dude, I love your books. I cannot wait to read that.” And then he DM’s me, my favorite author on the planet DM’s me personally. I’m like, “Ah.” So I DM him back and we’re back and now we’re like friends, that fast. I’m talking about “How can I serve you? Can I help promote your book? Can a do a thing? What can I do to help serve you?” I’m not asking for anything. I’m just trying to legitimately help him and serve him, and I guarantee some day in the future, who knows, a year, 5 years, 10 years something cool will happen from it. But I’m reaching out.

So Gary Vaynerchuk, business development is sitting on Instagram DMing the cool people and trying to get in the cool people’s club, and commenting and saying stuff and being active in their lives, so that you’re not just some dude who shows up one day on their news feed, in their DM and they’ve never heard of you. Anyway, just a thought.

Anyway, alright. The last thing I’ll say, just within this community you guys, and I’m saying this right now inside the Two Comma Club X community, the same thing if you’re listening on the Clickfunnels community. We create these communities for a reason and obviously there’s a lot of, not in the Two Comma Club Community, but in the Clickfunnels community there’s a lot of people that come in there and try to poach people and try to get customers, but there are amazing people in there as well.

It’s like, how do you go in there and start looking around. Who are the people that are legit? Who are the people commenting, giving good value? Those are the people you should get to know. If they are in the forums commenting and posting and stuff like that, they’re trying to create business, they’re trying to do good stuff, they’re trying to help people. Those are the kind of people you want. Go in there and comment on their post. Yeah, that is cool. And go back to their FAcebook page, follow them, send them a message, get to know people. That’s part of this game. Yeah, that’s how this whole game is played.

So anyway, I hope that helps all of you guys. I hope that helps you Nick. I hope it helps everyone here in Two Comma Club, and again, if I post this as a podcast, I hope it helps everybody else as well. It’s just shifting your mindset and start focusing on that. Because as much as I love funnels and as much as I love coaching, as much as I love software, as much as I love all that stuff, the only thing that matters at the end of the day is your customer list. Every funnel is built so I can grow my list. That’s it. That’s the purpose and that’s the reason.

So I don’t know how long we’ve been going for tonight? Anyone know, anyone timing this? Anyway, I hope this is valuable to all you guys. I hope that it just becomes the focal point. I think within our community here in the forums be posting how many people joined your list today. “We got 10 today. We got 50 today. Got 20.” As soon as you start focusing on it it will keep on growing.

I can’t tell you how much, the times that business has stalled, that’s the number to look at. Right now inside of Clickfunnels, it’s interesting. If you look at the Clickfunnels, every morning we do what we call the daily pulse, and it’s all hands on deck Charfin style meeting, we all jump in. It’s a 7 minute long meeting and guess what the meeting is? The meeting is each department sharing their critical numbers. And the critical numbers are like our traffic, how many books did we sell today, how many Clickfunnels trials did we sell, and how many new are on our list. That’s the numbers. And we’re looking at it every single day because whatever you look at grows. If you don’t look at it, it shrinks. Focusing on that, focusing on it, focusing on it.

Gene says we’re 46 minutes in. Sweet. That’s almost as long as the first one Nick. So for those that don’t know, this is part three of his podcast coaching episodes. So the first, I’ll re….I talked about this at the very beginning, but for those that jumped on late, the very first one I did July 19, 2017. If you go to the marketing Secrets podcast and go to episode number 18, it’s called How to Make it Rain. And then a year later we did two more on November 21st, it was called My Conversation with a Friendly Giant, part one of two. And then November 26th is My Conversation With a Friendly Giant, part two of two. All of that is in the Marketing Secrets archives, go back and check them out. This will be the third installment.

So next year, Nick, the whole, my goal for you is at that point your list is going to be at least 50,000 people big, and money will be flowing like crazy. And the questions are going be like, “so where, how do we invest this money. What’s the next step? I want to make sure I’m protecting my family and my future.” Because that’s the best place to be.

And one more thing I want to comment on, and this was not a Nick thing specifically. So I’m going to tease someone but it’s not him. It was someone who is my inner circle. They’re not here right now, I can tease them like crazy. I’m not going to say their name though. But it’s something I think is a big mindset that’s going to hold a lot of people back, so I want to share it.

He told me, he’s out there and he’s networking with all these people and traveling all around, he’s got a killer podcast, he’s on podcasts and all this stuff. And he keeps trying to get Facebook ads to work, and he’s two and a half, almost three years in this business and he’s struggling and struggling. And he’s trying to do Facebook ads, and there’s nothing wrong with that, Facebook ads are great. But he sucks at them, and they’re not doing good with them, and they can’t get the thing to work.

And at the inner circle meeting I told him, ‘Stop buying Facebook ads. You have no right doing that. You don’t have money to be buying it. Stop buying Facebook ads. You’re networking with all these people, you should be doing deals with every single person you meet. You should be doing co-ads. And when you’re there with them, do an interview, create a landing page, you promote it, he promotes it. Boom. Now everyone’s businesses grow. You have a list, you have assets, you have a podcast, you have some things, you have leverage, you have a platform you can offer this person that you’re interviewing. Don’t just ugh…”

So I thought he heard me because he’s like, “Okay, cool. I’m going to do that.’ Then fast forward two months later, and he messaged me about how the Facebook ads aren’t working anymore. And I started screaming. I said, ‘You weren’t allowed to run Facebook ads anymore. You have to turn these stupid ads off and just, when you have a ton of money you can run Facebook ads, but you need to be going out there and doing deals, belly to belly doing deals. Closing, promotional deals with other people. One off, one at a time, one at a time and each deal will grow your customer list and grow your business incrementally.

And he messaged me back on Voxer, I should find it and post it. He’s like, “Well, I don’t want to do that.” Because he’s like, “Someday I might get hit by a car and I want this legacy for my wife and kids and grandkids. I want to build this thing and if I don’t have paid ads that are profitably working then I don’t have my legacy and whatever. So because of that I don’t want to do those other things you’re saying.”

I was like, “Dude, you don’t have anything right now. You don’t have a business right now. Build a legacy eventually, but right now it’s not about building a legacy, right now it’s about trying to gain some ground, trying to get customers in. The first year of your business is, and more than that, the first five years of your business, it’s all focused on getting ground, getting people, getting those things in.” I was like, “You’re not going to have a legacy at all because you’re not getting your Facebook ads to work. You gotta spend some time doing the hard work, doing the belly to belly stuff, going out there and doing deal after deal, partnership after partnership. Cross promote, cross promote, cross promote.

“Getting those things so you can start building your list up and then you’ll have something of substance that then you can, you’ll have some time and energy to buy ads, you’re not going to be stressed out, ‘my budget this month is $300 on Facebook ads.’ And you spend it on the first day and you’re like, ‘I have no more ad money, and it wasn’t..’ That’s so much stress on you, so much pressure. I can’t imagine the stress and pressure that would cause. Take that pressure off and stop giving money to somebody, stop giving money to Facebook and go in and start focusing on doing the deals that don’t cost money up front. They’re all a percentage of revenue, do those things until your customer base is big enough that you’re cash flow is big enough, you’re income is big enough that now you can be like, ‘Okay, I’ve got an extra $5,000 a month that I’m going to start figuring out this Facebook game. That’s the time. That’s when this becomes easy and fun and takes the stress off you.”

When you’ve got more cash and more money to burn, yeah, go spend time figuring out Facebook ads and running them and making them profitable. But if you’r ein that spot where you don’t yet, okay. That’s fine. I spent a decade of my life, a decade, on Skype, Face to Face, pre-facebook, I was on Skype messaging people, calling them, up at all hours of the night trying to do deals, and recording interviews. This was before we had USB microphones like this. We had these big old, if Dave Lespre was on here, he’d probably remember these. These big boxes with plug in cords and wires. I had a cassette player from Radio Shack, freaking Radio Shack, to record my phone calls.

I would record it and it was horrible quality, and I had to figure out how to get it from a cassette tape onto a computer, and that was a thing, and that horrible audio quality from my cassette tape. From my phone to the cassette tape to the computer was the free thing you got people to opt into, but it was the best we could do. It was so much work, and so much stress, but it was all these little fun wins along the way and it was like, I’d do a deal and we made, we had $2 grand tonight, but from a teleseminar. We’d do a teleseminar and we made $2 grand, but I added 500 people to my list. Boom, 500 people to my list this week, that’s awesome. Do another deal and boom, that becomes the focal point.

So it’s a little bit of hustling, but its hustling without the stress of like where’s, you know, $3 per lead. That’s stressful. This is less stressful. Put together a deal, have some fun with it, create something amazing with somebody, and then get them to, you know, you both promote it, and you both, your list gets bigger together and you create something amazing. And at the end you both have it and it’s this fun thing.

I mean for crying out loud, Jason Fladlien and I did this a little while ago. We did it with WebinarBlueprint.com I think. We created a webinar together and said, “Let’s just teach our webinar secrets for 3 hours.” “Okay, I’ll promote, you promote, we’ll share the list.” He’s like, “Okay.” So we both promoted it, talked for 3 hours, he got the list, I got the list, and we moved on and made some money and we both grew our list, and kept on moving forward.

And now he got the rights to the product, I got the rights to the product so I can do whatever. I can make that the bonus for my next thing. I can use it as a freebie over here. I can use it for an upsell, I can use it for an order form bump, there’s a million places I could use that 3 hour interview now, because when we created it we both got the rights to it, both do whatever we want with it.

I remember Mike Filsaime, when I launched my very first product that made over a million bucks, he was my top affiliate. He gave away a bonus which was like, “I’m going to do a…” I think it was like a “6 hour consulting call with Russell where he’s going to consult me for 3 hours, I’m going to consult him, you guys can listen behind the scenes to it, and when it’s done we’ll give you guys the rights to the interview and you can do whatever you want with it.”

So we did this 6 hour call where he interviewed me for 3 hours, I interviewed him, and then that was the bonus he gave away to get people to buy through his affiliate link and then he let the people take that, and then he could sell it, and people used that for order form bumps, and upsells and all sorts of stuff all over the place. Just spread our message even more.

Anyway, there’s like a billion ideas. Sometimes I get so many ideas to people that it freezes them. So hopefully it doesn’t freeze you guys. Hopefully you just listen to all those and be like, “That one I could execute on. I know someone with a list, it’s a little bit bigger than mine, we’re in the same market, I’m going to do a cross promo for them, we’re going to come up with a really cool product idea, we’re going to call it whatever. I’ll teach my part, he teaches his part, I promote, he promotes, we share the list and boom my list will grow, I’ll make a little bit of money and then I’m going to do this deal again. And every week we’re going to do this and it’s going to be so much fun because I get to do this weekly because I know every single day how big my list is growing. And if I only do this once a month, my list isn’t going to grow for 2 or 3 days and then it stops. So I gotta do this more often. It might be weekly, might be daily. I’m setting up deals all the time and it’s going to be so much fun.”

So look at, do I have agreements. No, I don’t do agreements. Every time I’ve done a legal agreement the person who’s trying to get me to do the legal agreement is usually trying to screw me over. Especially with deals like this. It’s just simple. I’ll email them and be like, “Okay, this is the deal. You in?” and they’re like, “Yes.” So I always have an email, but I don’t, at this level I don’t have any contracts, I don’t have anything.

Even to this day I hate doing contracts. I have legal people that force me to now, but I hate them. So I would say, I don’t think my first contract happened until I was about a decade into the business, and that dude made me do a contract screwed me hard core. It’s crazy. Literally, I don’t know what it is with people and contracts, but the people who want the contracts the most are usually the ones who screw you.

That’s what they always say in a divorce or when marriages, when someone thinks you’re cheating, “I think my wife’s cheating on me.” It usually means that you’re cheating on your wife. It’s the craziest thing. It’s the same thing, if they want a contract, it means they’re probably trying to screw you. That’s my opinion. As soon as I get any contract, “Let’s just not do this deal then. This is just going to be a fun thing.’

Anyway, that’s why I do it. And I always make it super easy. It’s easy. “This is the thing we’re doing, you promote, I promote, both put our full effort into it, I promote by sending 3 emails to my list, you send 3 emails, I’m going to do a Facebook live, you do a Facebook live, we’ll podcast it.” Or whatever it is, “That’s what we’re both going to do and when it’s done, everyone opts into the list, you get a copy of the list, I get a copy of the list, that’s it.” And if they’re like, “Sweet, let’s do it.” Then that’s it. There’s nothing, there’s no…

At the end of it, “you get rights to the product to do whatever you want, I’ll do whatever I want with it. We can both keep the interview and we can both use it  however we want to use it in the future.” Just simple. Keep it nice and easy and clean.

Yes, Susan I should be in bed. But I’m not going to lie, I’ve been working on a project, I got really excited and I was going through it and I looked at Facebook live and I saw Nick, and I wanted to do a little rant, and then now it’s been an hour later.

Anyway, alright guys. I’m probably going to wrap it for tonight because I have no idea if my kids are even in bed yet. So I probably should go check on them. I think they are but you know how it is in the summertime sometimes.

Anyway, I appreciate all you guys. I hope you’re enjoying this whole experience. I’m not going to lie, I’m super jealous and envious of all you guys going through this. I still remember the very first time I was going through it. I remember being, I remember times being so scared because, just scared because I didn’t have any money. My wife was making $9.50 an hour, I was making zero an hour. And I was like, “I gotta figure this out before we’re out of money.”

But we didn’t, it’s funny looking back at it now. Because I was so stressed then where now it’s like, worst case scenario, we’re going to become, have more debt? I was so scared, but it wasn’t that big of a deal. Nowadays, things are way scarier. I have 340 employees, 340 families that rely on me not screwing up. Then I’ve got all of you guys who I coach and try to inspire and mentor. There’s a lot of stress nowadays. Man, I miss back in the day when I was trying to figure this stuff out.

But I remember learning all these things, and having the aha’s the very first time. I remember like the first time I got list building. Like I really got it and I was like, ‘Oh my gosh.’ Like it was like a light bulb went off in my head. I remember I had that, and I didn’t know how to build a list, and you goes know my spam story, I don’t want to talk about that.  I got into spamming, and it didn’t work. I found out how email auto responders worked. I was like, “Oh my gosh, this is so much easier.”

Each piece along the way had these things, and just the joy of that discovery was so much fun. I really, really miss it. It gets harder and harder to find the new thing, and I totally miss that part of the game. It is really, really fun. So hopefully you guys are enjoying the process. I know it’s hard and frustrating and scary and all those kind of things sometimes. But looking back on it, it’s just like how my wife and I always talk about, now money is not an issue, we have all those kind of things we want, but we talk about, “Do you remember when we were completely broke in a 400 square foot apartment?” We literally had no money at all.

I remember one night we had no money for groceries and taking all her CDs that she spent a decade of her life collecting. We took them to this CD exchange store, and they gave us $30 for a hundred CDs. And then taking that money to the grocery store and buying groceries. And it wasn’t even enough groceries for the week. And we’re like, “What are we going to do next week?” “I don’t know.”

Those times were so much fun. I just hope you guys enjoy the process. I know sometimes it can be stressful, but I promise you that after it clicks, it’s like we talked about earlier. If you came on later, go back and listen to the whole thing, but it’s pushing this boulder up a hill, it’s hard and it’s frustrating, and it’s hard to get there. But as soon as you get over the top, then it just takes off, then it’s fun. And I’d say for most of you guys over the top is like 30,000 people on your list. 30,000 people on your list, that’s like the tipping point typically.

And the next big one is 100,000 people on your list. But if you set that as the goal, the site, that’s where we’re going, then it becomes possible. Then it’s just like, how to be creative. How do we do it? What are the different ways? How do we come up with new ideas, new tweaks, different ways, new partners and different fun stuff? And then just doing it.

And Michael said it great in the comments down there, “Don’t quit.” I promise you guys this stuff works. It takes a little while sometimes to go through the ups and the downs and the frustrations, those kind of things, but it’s worth it. I promise you it’s worth it.

It’s worth it on a couple of levels. It’s worth it for yourselves, the money and that kind of thing is really, really cool. That part is cool but that wears out fast. It’s worth it from the freedom, security, that kind of stuff is awesome. But it’s more worth it when you start seeing people’s lives that you’re serving, and you see them have success, that’s so much cooler than I ever dreamt it was going to be.

I don’t think most people get into entrepreneurship like, ‘I want to change somebody’s life.” Some of you guys do. Some of you guys are more altruistic than me. That wasn’t my core motivation going into it, but then after I tasted that, I was like, “Man, that was really, really cool.” That was really, really cool.

Anyway, keep doing it you guys. It works. I promise you that. You just gotta make sure you’re focusing on the right things. You don’t put out a lot of stuff, some funnels flop. I was talking to my dad tonight, earlier, they’re in town right now and I was like, “The interesting thing about this is that the market doesn’t care about our feelings.” The market doesn’t care you’re in business. The market doesn’t care that you spent the last six months killing yourself. The market doesn’t care.

The only thing the market cares about is the sell. So at first that’s frustrating, like “Screw you market. Don’t you know who I am?” Then it’s like almost freeing. It’s like, “You know what, if I screw up it’s not my fault. The market just didn’t want it. What does the market actually want? What if I stopped asking what do I want to create and started asking, ‘what does the market want? What are they looking for right now? What is the thing that they actually want?’

That’s when you start shifting to, huh, let me start listening. What is the market saying? And it’s hard because the market is not a person, it’s a group of people. What are they saying collectively and start listening closer and then start reading their comments.

I was talking to Brandon and Kaelin Poulin of Lady Boss when they were at the last inner circle meeting. They said, “You know what’s fascinating, we don’t write our own copy anymore, we don’t create our own products anymore. All we do is we go into our Facebook group and we just listen. And they tell us the copy, they tell us what they want. They tell us what they, we just listen to the market right now.”

So eventually you build up the list to where you have your own list, you have your own following, and that’s the voice you’re listening to. And until you have that, you’ve got to look at the market and say, “Okay, where’s that market congregating. Who’s list are they on? What forums, what groups, what Facebook groups?” getting into them and start listening, listening to the market, trying to get your ears in tune with the market, the pulse of what they are saying, what they’re feeling, what their pains are, what their desires are.

When you start listening through those ears, when you’re in a Facebook group or wherever it is where you’re going to hear your market, you’ll start hearing it. “Oh that’s the frustration. That’s the pain. That’s the thing that we’re missing.’

You know, it’s been interesting, I can’t announce these things yet, but the last 6 months or so, listening to my market, to the Clickfunnels, to that market, I definitely heard a lot and developed a lot. And you will be seeing over the next 6 months changes that at first will make no logical sense, and then when I write the book about it later you’ll be like, “Oh my gosh, he heard.”

So I’ll make sure you guys, for your own markets, that you’re listening and paying attention. Because the market tells you what it wants. So if the offer doesn’t convert, don’t be mad, that’s not what the market wants. “What do they want, let me find out, let me pay attention.” Then create what they’re asking for. If you do that, that’s a recipe for success.

 I remember one of the very first courses I ever went to was Frank Kerns Underachiever method, which I ended up buying that course, the rights, from him. But the whole premise of the book was like, having success in business is three steps. Step number one, find a hot market. Step number two, ask them what they want. Step number three, give it to them. That’s it.

You start looking at businesses from that lens, it’s like, “Oh my gosh, this is real easy.” Find a hot market, ask them what they want, give it to them. It’s not, think of a really cool, unique product or service that’s going to be amazing, then create a funnel to force them to buy the thing. And then go buy ads to go force the, you know find the people who will go buy the thing that you created that you love.

No, find a hot market, ask them what they want, give it to them. That’s it. It becomes really, really simple that way. And if we’re over complicating it, then we need to step back a little bit. All the other things are techniques to help make that process easier, but it really is simple. Find a hot market, that’s a market where people are excited and passionate, who have money, who are looking for stuff.

I still remember Joel Erway when he joined the inner circle three years ago, he was trying to sell to engineers how to increase your salary. He tried everything on earth. His webinar was good, his offer was good, everything was good and nobody was going to buy. And he was like, “Why is nobody buying?” Finally I was like, ‘do you really want to know why? Engineers are boring. They’re nice people, but they’re boring. They’re not excited by, they’re not like, ‘yay engineering! Let’s go spend some money on becoming better.’ You’ve never heard that from any of them ever. What do you hear? The market is the market where people are like, ‘ahh, I must give money to somebody for something.’

If your market is not buying stuff from a lot of people right now, it’s not a good market. So find a hot market. Then again, listening. What do they want? Ask them what they want. Then creating that, not what you want, what they want.

And man, I can’t tell you how many failed funnels I’ve had of me creating my big idea that the market didn’t want. I’ve had features inside of Clickfunnels that crashed because I created what I wanted but not what the market wanted. So it comes back to that.

Yeah, Nick said, “That’s where my course came from. I kept getting asked that, so I created it.” Boom, you got it. That’s the game plan. So now you know that, so now we got it, now let’s go out and start getting that market, start earning the ground and building it up.

Alright guys, I’m going to bounce. Thanks so much for everything. I hope you are all doing good. And if you don’t have your tickets yet to Unlock the Secrets event, come on now, what are you waiting for? I’m killing myself on these slides, these presentations and it’s going to be so good. It’s going to be fun.

Alright, appreciate you all, have a great night and we’ll talk to you guys soon. Bye everybody.